Coming to You

Gyuri Byun's groundbreaking Korean documentary centers on two working class mothers, Nabi and Vivian. Like many in South Korea, where there is a distinct lack of legal protections for queer communities and gay marriage remains illegal, neither women gave much thought to LGBTQ+ rights or its growing advocacy among the country's younger generations. Their lives and perceptions, however, are when their respective children come out to them – Nabi's daughter as trans, and Vivian's son as gay. Reluctant to accept this news at first, both women's reactions reveal deep-rooted discriminatory beliefs about queerness. This is not uncommon in South Korean society, which makes their respective transformations all the more impactful – both women grow to not only accept their children's gender and sexuality, but become activists in their own right as members of Parents, Families and Allies of LGBTAIQ+ People in Korea. Both Nabi and Vivian grapple with the pain and loneliness their children feel, the struggle to access gender affirming care, and the yearning for social and familial acceptance.

"Coming to You is a documentary that primarily explores LGBTQIA+ themes within the context of Korean culture. Therefore, it would be appropriately categorized in several sections within public or academic libraries. Firstly, it belongs on the LGBTQIA+ documentary shelf, as it directly addresses issues related to LGBTQIA+ identities and experiences. This placement would help viewers understand the social, cultural, and political challenges faced by LGBTQIA+ individuals, particularly within Korea.

"Additionally, the documentary would be a valuable addition to the Asian Studies section. Given that it provides insights into Korean society, it would be relevant for collections focusing on Asian studies. This placement would benefit those studying the region's cultural dynamics, societal norms, and the intersection of these with LGBTQIA+ issues.

"Lastly, for those interested in the specifics of Korean life, traditions, and modern societal changes, placing Coming to You in a section dedicated to Korean culture would make it accessible to audiences seeking a deeper understanding of the country's contemporary issues. By positioning the documentary in these sections, libraries can ensure it reaches a diverse audience interested in LGBTQIA+ rights, Asian cultural studies, and Korean society.

"The documentary would contribute to discussions on the global struggle for LGBTQIA+ rights, offering a specific look at these issues in Korea. During Pride Month or other LGBTQIA+ celebratory events, Coming to You would be a fitting addition to a Pride film series. It underscores the importance of visibility and acceptance, aligning well with the themes of pride and advocacy. Including Coming to You in these film series would provide audiences with a rich, culturally specific examination of LGBTQIA+ issues, fostering greater understanding and empathy across different contexts" (Video Librarian).